Octavia Spencer: I’m Grateful Success Didn’t Happen at 22
Octavia Spencer arrives at the 2013 Oscars. (Gregg DeGuire/WireImage)Octavia Spencer worked in Hollywood for 16 years before she became a household name.
She appeared in "E.R.," movies like "Big Momma's House," and many,
many
more TV shows and films before landing the role in "The Help" that won
her the Best Supporting Actress Oscar last year. The surprising thing is
that she wouldn't have had it any other way.
"I think [success] came at the right time," Spencer tells omg!. "I
think success happens when it's supposed to and when you can appreciate
it. I am grateful that it didn't happen for me at 22 or 23. I would've
been foolish enough to think that we're all entitled to it, instead of
it being the divine blessing that it is."
The 42-year-old explains that the movie -- in which she portrays
Minny, a woman taking care of the homes and children of white families
in pre-Civil Rights Era Jackson, Mississippi -- brought her much more
than accolades.
"I'm still good friends with Viola [Davis] and Emma [Stone], Jessica
[Chastain] -- we were a tight-knit group," she says, adding that her
preparation for the role also left her with a different outlook on life.
"I realized that my perspective about my place in the world needed to
change. I come from humble beginnings -- very humble beginnings -- but
Minny, her beginnings were more humble than mine. And she didn't feel
entitlement. She just wanted the best life for her kids, and it made me
realize that it wasn't about the glass being half empty or half full,
but that you owned the glass. Minny didn't own the glass. I've always
owned the glass, and I didn't know that, and getting ready for that role
put it all into perspective, and that's why I think it was good that
success happened for me at a later date, because I got it; I got the
memo."
Last year, while all this change was going on, Spencer also made a
big decision about her health after she heard about a product called
Sensa, which is a weight-loss supplement that when sprinkled over food is supposed to trick the body into thinking it's full.
Spencer shares a scene with Viola Davis. (Dale Robinette/DreamWorks)
"I just joined the 40s club, and I thought if this product will help
me lose weight at my own pace, in my own way, and I don't have to follow
a crazy, restrictive meal plan, then it's something that I need to do,"
Spencer says.
At the same time, the actress decided she needed to step up her workout.
"I like to eat, and so I know that I have to be physical at some
point, or I'm going to be just a little soft marshmallow," she notes.
The combination of exercise and eating less has already paid off big.
Spencer unveiled a 20-pound weight loss in February, and she's not
finished yet. She jokingly sings "Everyday I'm sprinkling," to the tune
of the line "Everyday I'm shuffling" in LMFAO's "Party Rock Anthem."
The star stuns in basic black. (Steve Granitz/WireImage)
"As a kid, I was always very thin, and I kind of didn't know that I
was skinny," she notes. "I look back at pictures now, and I think, 'Who
are you?' I started really gaining weight at around 18 or 19, and then
10 pounds turns into 20. The freshman 15 is what started it for me."
While her dress size is smaller now, Spencer says her red carpet
style has remained consistent. She continues to sport dresses designed
by the Japanese-born Tadashi Shoji when she steps out for fancy fetes.
"I love a classic look, which is why I love Tadashi," she raves. "I
gravitate to whatever looks good on me and whatever maakes me feel sexy.
I can't say that that has changed because of weight loss."
The next time you see Spencer at a Hollywood soiree, she just might
be being honored for her latest role, in the independent film
"Fruitvale." The film is based on the true story of Oscar Grant, a
22-year-old man who was shot to death by the Bay Area Rapid Transit
Police Department in San Francisco in 2009, sparking outrage, because he
was found to be unarmed.
Spencer, who plays Grant's mother, notes that the project was an important one for her.
"The mentality of how we treat one another needs to be examined,
especially how we treat our men of color," she shares. "I have young
nephews that would be contemporaries of Oscar Grant, and I thought that
if by doing this film it would somehow cause people to assess their
behavior -- no matter what side of the issue they're on -- if it would
help them assess their behavior and curtail their behavior in some way
and how we deal with another, then maybe I've done my job."
The A-list actress's upcoming projects also include a children's book
that comes out in the fall, as well as a Lifetime movie, "Call Me
Crazy," about mental illness. The flick, which airs April 20, is a
series of five short films featuring actresses such as Jennifer Hudson
and Melissa Leo. Spencer stars in the segment directed by, of course,
another friend from "The Help," Bryce Dallas Howard.